As with Parents, so with Others and so with God? Relationships among Humanistic Spirituality and Parental and Adult Attachment Styles

• Authors: Kontrimienė Simona

Title variants

PL

Jak z rodzicami, tak z innymi i tak samo z Bogiem? Związki między duchowością humanistyczną a stylami przywiązania do rodziców i stylami przywiązania prezentowanymi w dorosłości

• Languages of publication: EN

Abstracts

EN

This study (N = 449) explores relationships among humanistic spirituality, which in our Humanistic Spirituality Model encompasses the components of self-actualisation, transcendence and ultimate meaning in life, as well as parental and adult attachment styles as lifelong factors in the origin of spirituality. The results indicate that for female participants, humanistic spirituality is predicted by age and secure adult attachment, whereas for male participants, secure attachment to the mother and secure adult attachment are significant positive predictors. Lastly, the effect of secure attachment to the mother on humanistic spirituality for male participants is direct, while for female participants, it is indirect and mediated by secure adult attachment.

PL

Niniejsze badania (N = 449) odnoszą się do relacji między duchowością humanistyczną, która w zaproponowanym Modelu Duchowości Humanistycznej obejmuje komponenty samorealizacji, transcendencji i ostatecznego sensu życia, a stylami przywiązania do rodziców i stylami przywiązania prezentowanymi w dorosłości jako całożyciowymi czynnikami znajdującymi się u źródeł duchowości. Wyniki wskazują, że według uczestniczek badania duchowość humanistyczna jest związana z wiekiem i bezpiecznym przywiązaniem w dorosłości, podczas gdy według uczestników istotnymi predyktorami pozytywnymi są bezpieczne przywiązanie do matki i bezpieczne przywiązanie w dorosłości. Ponadto według uczestników płci męskiej bezpieczne przywiązanie do matki wpływa bezpośrednio na duchowość humanistyczną, podczas gdy według uczestniczek płci żeńskiej wpływ ten jest pośredni i zapośredniczony przez bezpieczne przywiązanie w dorosłości.

Keywords

EN

humanistic spirituality; self-actualisation; transcendence; meaning in life; parental attachment styles; adult attachment styles

PL

duchowość humanistyczna; samorealizacja; transcendencja; sens życia; style przywiązania do rodziców; style przywiązania w dorosłości

• Publisher: Uniwersytet Mikołaja Kopernika w Toruniu. Wydawnictwo UMK
• Journal: Paedagogia Christiana
• Year: 2022
• Volume: 2/50
• Pages: 83-108

Contributors

author

Kontrimienė Simona

• Vilnius University

• https://orcid.org/0000-0001-8630-2023

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Identifiers

DOI

10.12775/PCh.2022.016