The Self Lost, the Self Adjusted: Forming a New Identity in Bereavement Memoirs by American Women

• Authors: Katarzyna Małecka
• Languages of publication: EN

Abstracts

EN

Most Western cultures place a great value on autonomy. American society in particular has always stressed the need to succeed via self-reliance, a characteristic which, in recent decades, has additionally manifested itself in an increasing inclination for self-examination reflected in the deluge of autobiographical writing, especially memoirs. This analysis focuses on memoirs of spousal loss, a specific subgenre of life writing in which, due to the loss of a loved one, the narrating self realizes how unstable a sense of autonomy is. In their bereavement narratives, Joan Didion, Anne Roiphe, and Joyce Carol Oates admit that after losing a life partner their world crumbled and so did their sense of self. The article examines the following aspects of the grieving self: 1. how grief tests one’s self-sufficiency; 2. how various grief reactions contribute to self-disintegration; 3. the widow as a new and undesirable identity; and 4. writing as a way of regaining one’s sense of self.

Keywords

EN

self; loss; widow; bereavement; memoir; independence; grief; writing; narrative; self-pity

• Publisher: Sciendo
• Journal: Studia Anglica Posnaniensia
• Year: 2015
• Volume: 50
• Issue: 2-3
• Pages: 155-174

Dates

published

2015-12-01

online

2016-01-12

Contributors

author

Katarzyna Małecka

• University of Social Sciences, Łódź

Identifiers

DOI

10.1515/stap-2015-0030