I have self-compassion so I feel sexy! Sexual satisfaction and self-compassion effects on self-esteem and body esteem

• Authors: Dagna Kocur , Łukasz Jach , Magdalena Berek-Zamorska , Paulina Kamińska

Abstracts

EN

Body esteem, self-esteem, and sexual satisfaction influence people’s well-being so it is important to look for psychological factors that may contribute to their improvement. However, men and women differ in the factors that affect their body esteem, self-esteem, and sexual satisfaction. We analyzed links between men’s and women’s self-esteem, body esteem, sexual satisfaction, and self-compassion. The research involved 716 heterosexual participants (365 men and 351 women). All measured variables correlated positively; however, some correlations were stronger among women than among men. Mediation analyses revealed that sexual satisfaction directly affected women's body esteem but did not directly affect men's body esteem. Self-compassion and sexual satisfaction explained more variance in self-esteem and body esteem among women than among men. We explained observed differences in the contexts of the self-perception theory and the objectification theory.

Keywords

EN

body esteem; self-esteem; self-compassion; sexual satisfaction

• Publisher: Uniwersytet Kardynała Stefana Wyszyńskiego w Warszawie
• Journal: Studia Psychologica
• Year: 2023
• Volume: 23
• Issue: 1
• Pages: 4-14

Dates

published

2023

Contributors

author

Dagna Kocur

• Institute of Psychology, University of Silesia in Katowice

• https://orcid.org/0000000308614579

author

Łukasz Jach

• Institute of Psychology, University of Silesia in Katowice

• https://orcid.org/0000000282150795

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Magdalena Berek-Zamorska

• Institute of Psychology, University of Silesia in Katowice

• https://orcid.org/0000000294860866

author

Paulina Kamińska

• Institute of Psychology, University of Silesia in Katowice

• https://orcid.org/0000000331697931

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Identifiers

DOI

10.21697/sp.2023.23.1.01

Biblioteka Nauki

29433609