Marriage preparation, pastoral accompaniment, and relationship quality among migrant and intercultural couples in the Netherlands

• Authors: Ward Biemans

Abstracts

EN

This quantitative survey among migrant and intercultural couples in the Netherlands investigates the relationships between marriage preparation, pastoral accompaniment and relationship quality. Relationship quality may be negatively influenced by a process of cultural transition, by instability of the relationship itself or by underdeveloped communication skills between partners. Participants (n=223) have been married in the Catholic Church between 1995 and 2021. Correlations between various religious and spiritual activities and relationship quality have been calculated through linear regression analysis. Results show that overall, migrant couples and intercultural couples appreciate a more intensive, professional, and welcoming Marriage and Relationship Education (MRE) and pastoral accompaniment after marriage. It is also concluded that seeking reconciliation after a conflict (r=0.361) and experiencing forgiveness from one's spouse (r=0.188) are significantly associated with a higher perceived relationship quality. Finally, data indicate that migrants with a non-Western cultural background show a significant pattern of cultural defence (μ=-0,375) in comparison to Dutch people.

Keywords

EN

marriage accompaniment; migrants; intercultural couples; relationship quality; integration

• Publisher: Uniwersytet Opolski. Redakcja Wydawnictw Wydziału Teologicznego
• Journal: Family Forum
• Year: 2023
• Volume: 13
• Pages: 153-171

Dates

published

2023

Contributors

author

Ward Biemans

• Tilburg School of Catholic Theology

• https://orcid.org/0000000239717717

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Identifiers

DOI

10.25167/FF/5085

Biblioteka Nauki

53849913