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Rozprawy Społeczne
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2015
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vol. 9
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issue 1
28-34
PL
W niniejszym opracowaniu poddano analizie zagadnienie motywacji do zawarcia małżeństwa w świetle teorii konfliktu motywów Kurta Lewina, a szczególnie konfliktu przyciąganie-odpychanie, który wiąże się z oddziaływaniem dwóch przeciwstawnych motywów o podobnym natężeniu. Podkreślono, że obecnie młodzi ludzie coraz częściej doświadczają konfliktu między dwoma rodzajami motywów: ukierunkowanych na zawarcie małżeństwa oraz zniechęcających do jego zawarcia. W opisie rodzaju motywów uwzględniono podział na motywację zewnętrzną i wewnętrzną. Dłuższe oddziaływanie na jednostkę dwóch przeciwstawnych motywów skutkuje u niej stanami depresji, zniechęcenia, apatii i bezsilności. Przedstawiono zależności między konfliktem przyciąganie-odpychanie a oporem wobec małżeństwa.
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In this article the author analyses the problem of motivation to conclude a marriage in light of the theory of conflict of motives, particularly in relation to the approach-avoidance conflict, which is related to the impact of two contradictory to each other motives of similar intensity. It was emphasized that young people nowadays experience more and more the conflict of two types of motives – pro and anti –marriage. In the classification of motives internal and external motivation was considered. Long-term influence of two antagonist forces on a person may result in depression, despondency, apathy and helplessness. The author also presented interdependence of the approach-avoidance conflict and reluctance to marry.
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In this paper, the author analyses the role of parents in the spouse choice. In the past, the final decision with regard to marital choice used to be accepted by par­ents. Today the ideal of young generation is the romantic love and the acceptance of parents does not matter. Author also studies challenges lying before young adults and their parents (in the light of Erik Erikson’s theory). Factors generating parents’ resistance with regard to marriage have also been analyzed. The choice of spouse is better when both parents and children solve well the conflict related to their developmental period. It is also emphasized that parents should: accept the growing independence of children, help them to become responsible and happy people, accept when their children pursue romantic relation, support children in their new roles. The role of parents at the stage of preparing to marriage is also touched in the article.
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